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Calling all men!!!

So a new year lets hope I can make a new me too. 

This year began with me drunk and home alone, don’t worry I had been out ! But I was home alone. My friend who was out with me got her new love interest to come and get her as she wanted to go home, so I stayed out and with an old friend. Then went home. 

First lets begin with who me and my friend. We have both met two guys, both completely different.

So my friend met a guy out and he bought her drinks for the rest of the night they talked and kissed. They then went home together…

The next morning he offered to take her out for lunch, my friend accepted and so they went to a lovely country pub. After that he dropped her home and they began texting and my friend is so cool at this stuff she can wait days/hours before she texts a man back, which is an amazing skill. 

He then offers to take her out the next day. So they do! Anyway this Friday he is taking her out for dinner. This guy is very lovely apparently I have yet to meet him. But he is her type and she is very attracted to him….

So I believe this is the way for gentleman to be…does anyone else agree?

Some men would find this approach too much or too desperate, but I think its how it should be when you first meet someone and your first impressions go well. Its not being keen or desperate its just treating someone how you think they should be treated. Which is being a gentleman.

Now someone I have met, I met him last week, we had a very long chat when we first met. He is very cool a lot cooler than me. He is gorgeous and is very funny and I get on with him very well.

He has a different approach with woman…

we text all the time but it takes him a very long time to reply, it took me nearly two days before he got the hint that i wanted to see him again when he eventually invited me round to his,

It was lovely, awkward and new. 

But my issue is where do I go from here?

Because now and again I don’t get a reply late a night and I wonder do I wait to text or shall I send another? 

I fucking hate these games why can’t you just text when you want and not piss about with all of this. It really does annoy me.

So I want some advice please on what I should do! I don’t want to scare him off but also don’t want him to think I’m not interested.

So please please help me I really don’t want to mess this up :(